Time...
Its easy, its lovely, its a teacher....its hard!
Everyone has one of a kind and has to face it for some time. We may sulk and make it appeared as elongated one, or Enjoy and make it everlasting one. No matter what we do, it will always be there.
In hard time, where there are misunderstandings, what matters most is the communication. Feel for each other. Neglecting yourself and putting yourself in someone's shoes. Realization of self and other. Go through the each and every detail and put your heads together and find a way out. As been said, No problem comes without a solution! All you need to do is to find out a way. Being together in tough times, is mantra to over come.
Remember, more you come closer, more you get stronger. We all know the story and the moral behind the four wooden stick and breaking them separately and then joined together. Against any external force being applied, it matters, how close you get and how good you sustain.
Talking out the problems, always provides a way out. two people thing alone and trying to overcome, is not a solution.
In confusions which usually come as free gift when in love, specially if its a distant love, both need to be vocal. Set the right expectations. Question eachother. Answer eachother. Build your belief and trust on your understanding and Love-feelings. Don't rely on what others say and interpret for you. Use your own brain and check with your heart. There would be times when you would feel shaken. Stirred. Upset and troubled. Nothing would last, once you speak out. Honesty and Trust would be the solvent.
We know there are times when we question our faith and base of all that we trusted. Remember, it was your heart which initiated it. It can never be wrong. Mind over heart has always been a debate. Ask yourself! Haven't you relied on your heart and always come up with flying colors? Yes. We all have gone through that phase from simple things, like spelling of a particular word where we hanged on to heart or to the difficult situations where it needed instant and reflexive reaction, for example, applying a break while driving. Did we ever thought of being calculative? No.
Now is the tough time...so what! Big deal. Huh! Listen to yourself. The inner you which is beautiful and very precise. It doesn't do mistakes when guiding you through the tough times.
Speak up. Don't Sulk.
Communicate. Don't Hide.
Talk. Don't be Silent.
Contact. Don't Isolate.
You will be victorious.
Just remember, things may not shape up initially, as you dream or plan to...but they take the final form, as you build it. Don't stop your efforts.
Roti/Chapati is never Round from the beginning...it keeps changing....and then succumbs to the way you mold it. You build it.
Go for it!
